An experienced life coach can offer valuable support in many ways. A life coach’s job is to offer a third-party perspective. A holistic life coach will make you see things that, even though right in front of you, go unnoticed in your daily lives.
As a life coach, I have helped many people grow spiritually and holistically in their lives. But in this article, we will have a look at how an individual can save one’s relationship with the help of a life coach. We will see how a spiritual life coach can change your relationship with yourself and thereby make your relationship with other people better.
Why Do Relationships Get Bitter In Life?
It is the nature of life. Everything that looks beautiful will one day look ugly. When we talk about relationships, the fundamental nature of life is conflict. Conflict is the opposite of love. Wherever there is love, there will be conflict.
The difference of opinion or conflict does not disturb the harmony of a relationship, but a lack of knowledge of effective ways of handling conflicts disturbs a relationship.
One can come up with different reasons behind failing relationships like lack of communication skills, ego, etc, but it is all about handling that time of conflict.
How Can A Life Coach Help?
You may have seen many life coaches having problems with their own parents. In some cases, the life coaches are divorced.
The point is that life coaches themselves are facing problems in their relationship, how will they be able to help you?
A doctor helps the patient recover by treating the patient. This does not mean that a doctor cannot get sick.
A life coach does face problems in their own life, and so does everyone who has walked on planet earth. It is not about problems. It is about you handling them.
How A Pattern Affects Even A Life Coach?
All the issues we have in life are because of patterns. In other words, we can call this karma and samskara. That is, actions and the stored patterns that influence our actions.
Every holistic life coach and spiritual master is affected by these patterns. As a student of life and a life coach to many, I have observed that a true guide will guide himself as well as others in different challenges of life.
Everything in the universe is affected by this law of karma. One does not need to get rid of the counter-productive patterns, but one needs to channelize these patterns.
How A Life Coach Works To Heal A Relationship?
As a life coach in India, I work with people coming from various walks of life and also from different countries and cultures. However, I work in two different ways when dealing with relationship issues.
One is where the people involved in a relationship take coaching. Another where only one person is taking coaching sessions.
In either case, it is about the process of the life coach and student understanding the subtleties of life. It is about understanding the fundamentals of relationships and how to handle them. It is about understanding the past impressions that are the cause of the present issues and neutralizing them.
If both people involved in a relationship take relationship coaching sessions, it becomes easy. If one is taking, it takes a little more time, but anyway, it works if the student gives their best.
I used to faint in situations where I wanted to do the task but was also afraid to do. My whole body would get cold and couldn’t see anything even if my eyes were open. As my guru, Sahil Nagpal said, “in certain situations my mind could not take decision so it would go blank” Sir gave me a very effective solution i.e. take deep breaths 10 times closing your eyes and repeat it 3 to 4 times a day. And it works and from then I haven’t fainted. Thanks a lot to you sir.
We had invited Mr. Nagpal for a session on self defence on Womens Day and it was a total hit. He has in-depth subject knowledge and gives justice to each session that he delivers. His session on Decision Making by Managing Emotions was much appreciated by all the participants. His charm and charisma is cherry on the cake.
When To Decide To Work With A Life Coach?
This depends on individual to individual. Always remember, you don’t work with a life coach because you are weak. You work with a life coach because you are smart enough and bold enough to take guidance from a third person.
All the kings of the past had many advisors and spiritual masters. Even today, high performing leaders and celebrities take all types of coaching sessions and spiritual advice from different masters.
There are many benefits of working with life coach. When you should work with a life coach is entirely up to you. The only thing you need to keep in mind is that whenever you decide to work, give your 100% so that you can reap maximum benefits from the life coach.
If you want to explore various possibilities through life coaching, book your first appointment with me through home homepage or shoot an email or message to the number mentioned on the website.
